Women often fantasize about being ravaged and taken control of. It doesn't mean you necessarily want it in your real sex life, but it's fun to entertain the idea. Fantasize about someone powerful having his way with you sexually. Maybe your fantasy man is the James Bond type, who steps into the hotel room, leaves his gun on the table, and sweeps you off your feet and into the bed. Or perhaps a burly construction man is more your taste, home from a long, hot, sweaty day of work, oozing pheromones. You might even be into fantasizing about the leather-clad dominator, bent on punishing you for being so very, very naughty. Maybe there are blindfolds or restraints. Maybe you're even taken by surprise